yes for sure, and all too often when a couple is looking to add a third or start swinging or swapping, its the hubby pushing the wife into it and that is a recipe for failure. I will never get involved with a couple where that is happening and its easy to pick up on. Same as with couples at a swing or sex club.
Yep. I have been a member of a swingers site for many years. In the organized swingers world, there are two things known to be bad for relationships; A) jealousy. B) a broken marriage/relationship to start with. The saying is that "if your marriage is broken swinging will finish it off".
yes exactly, there can not be any jealousy, it must just happen naturally and spontaneously, its not all about me, its about us all and I love when I get to share in the passion and intimacy that is between them usually because they want me to be part of it
Yews, you understand it. It's a real friend thing... Some people just have no idea. "Where they welcome me into their lives..." that is sooooo tttrrrruuuueee D. If a woman cares about her friend (G/F from work, wherever...) and her husband /B/F has the intellectual capacity to play along without being a dick it can sometimes turn into a regular thing. Also, jealousy needs to go some where else for these situations. To a point, the guy needs to somewhat feel like he has a job to do, yet not convey a business as usual feeling to the visiting lady.