I used to hook up with women on Craigslist , back when adult personals existed, who were wanting to try this with someone other than their partners, primarily because they feared their partner ridiculing them for this fetish, which MANY a women have but are scared to act on. The reluctance in wanting to take that penis into her mouth because of where it just was? It’s an act. Women are totally turned on to do it, but playing the reluctant victim game is much more fun. And it is for guys like myself who enjoy taking from your women what they deny you. I’d say thank you, but it doesn’t seem warranted.